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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>KEEN OBSERVER OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS</description><title>Yesterday doesn't tell today what to do</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @withabang)</generator><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>mcstarsky:

The Manufacture of Sadness by Maya Edelman
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/ccf526d2b709cb5496c2ba4408df1485/tumblr_mmwtdyitoj1so4hcko1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://mcstarsky.tumblr.com/post/51072214252/the-manufacture-of-sadness-by-maya-edelman"&gt;mcstarsky&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Manufacture of Sadness by Maya Edelman&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/51120474758</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/51120474758</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 12:45:22 +1000</pubDate><category>literally me irl</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a2644c42ed3765705d3f85519338644b/tumblr_mkch60kkds1qbjx5vo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/51105482766</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/51105482766</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 09:33:16 +1000</pubDate></item><item><title>Nana Grizol’s Ruth is my album of the day/forever.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/6b31c0579ebd97dc86e3a3718c0cc47c/tumblr_mn6xgjxgfe1qzjrj9o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Nana Grizol’s Ruth is my album of the day/forever.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/51057868009</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/51057868009</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 18:12:19 +1000</pubDate><category>nana grizol</category></item><item><title>womans-day:

A young woman sharing her thoughts on iced coffee...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/4d432c035d967c1154998e4fd281ad38/tumblr_mn2di9ptr71qaecfco2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d20bd6b5b3b92c0f3a2400a3c3f6b19b/tumblr_mn2di9ptr71qaecfco5_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d70a1f8bfe2d83fb32ef5b4cf76c2b7b/tumblr_mn2di9ptr71qaecfco1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/bb57583ad4884967dbf29088f0411817/tumblr_mn2di9ptr71qaecfco3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/28e14800811e2f8aca50759155c676d7/tumblr_mn2di9ptr71qaecfco6_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/df15e875e982f8e75ca3f4f33fef9180/tumblr_mn2di9ptr71qaecfco4_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f30d25914d703db8458f3e8b3a09da2d/tumblr_mn2di9ptr71qaecfco7_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://womans-day.tumblr.com/post/50896422331/a-young-woman-sharing-her-thoughts-on-iced-coffee" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;womans-day&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;A young woman sharing her thoughts on iced coffee with the world (via cell phone).&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50898278331</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50898278331</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 20:21:00 +1000</pubDate><category>literally me irl</category></item><item><title>Maybe at lunch I will buy some wool and needles and get into knitting because I am really bored of...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Maybe at lunch I will buy some wool and needles and get into knitting because I am really bored of not making things and maybe that is why I feel bad. LET&amp;#8217;S SEE HOW WE GO.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50866799664</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50866799664</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 10:35:14 +1000</pubDate><category>CRAFTS</category></item><item><title>heyschoolgirl:

Not content with part-time owning a cat and...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/42275b01711cc32efe5c50908b3fc746/tumblr_mn1q6desXr1qkvopyo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://heyschoolgirl.tumblr.com/post/50815661549/not-content-with-part-time-owning-a-cat-and" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;heyschoolgirl&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Not content with part-time owning a cat and letting strange cats into my own home, tonight I lured this cat into Thom’s home and we hung out with it while eating sauerkraut. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Here is the cat with my housemate and excellent tumblr personality Rachel. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;#catblogz&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;p&gt;A quality evening was had by all involved.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50817791628</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50817791628</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 23:32:18 +1000</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/7176efc8e4b2aa0164095009b97dae02/tumblr_mmwi15Jlag1s99ewlo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50730537805</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50730537805</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 00:42:17 +1000</pubDate></item><item><title>I hope that I don&amp;#8217;t get to 103, living alone in a trust house, burning all of my food and...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;I hope that I don&amp;#8217;t get to 103, living alone in a trust house, burning all of my food and waiting to die.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50627516352</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50627516352</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 13:15:52 +1000</pubDate><category>crying at work</category></item><item><title>My housemates and I bought a table to do a puppy puzzle on and I...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/bfe8305bb5b43e7eb329f1f1583ebab2/tumblr_mmvx40vvYo1qzjrj9o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;My housemates and I bought a table to do a puppy puzzle on and I am cradling it like a baby in the back of Josh’s car. If we’re in an accident on the ~20 minute drive home I will surely die.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50567181276</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50567181276</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 19:31:12 +1000</pubDate><category>carlton north snack and puzzle emporium</category></item><item><title>house-quake:

mrs-bouvier:

Anthony and his emergency kebab.

I...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/daf5e803c2aa7664af48b8824570fa91/tumblr_mmtm2u1Gty1r6fds5o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://house-quake.tumblr.com/post/50555464654/mrs-bouvier-anthony-and-his-emergency-kebab"&gt;house-quake&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://mrs-bouvier.tumblr.com/post/50554653030/anthony-and-his-emergency-kebab"&gt;mrs-bouvier&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://winnr.tumblr.com"&gt;Anthony&lt;/a&gt; and his emergency kebab.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I miss Melbourne. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I miss &lt;a href="http://house-quake.tumblr.com/post/50555464654/mrs-bouvier-anthony-and-his-emergency-kebab"&gt;Ren&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://jackalhawkesblood.tumblr.com"&gt;Jacky&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50555606994</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50555606994</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 14:16:13 +1000</pubDate></item><item><title>maximisaac:

Fortitude Valley, I want to live in you. (at...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1bccaf6865982850c44bac1917410293/tumblr_mmv1lmACwI1qbhun7o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://maximisaac.tumblr.com/post/50524610034/fortitude-valley-i-want-to-live-in-you-at"&gt;maximisaac&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Fortitude Valley, I want to live in you. (at Fortitude Valley)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I really miss the comforting, familiar grossness and unnecessary fance of the valley. I miss fifth battery, breakfast burgers and the smell of roasting coffee that makes me feel sick. I miss black bear lodge and it’s stream of familiar faces and suffocating heat. I miss Burlington and Superbowl and Kuan Yin. &lt;span&gt;I miss the empty mall in the morning, bad four dollar breakfasts, walking home at three. Leaving a place makes you &lt;/span&gt;romanticise it, but I was never one to deny that Brisbane is special. I miss bridges, catching boats and GOMA. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Is there is nowhere in Melbourne where I can buy a whiskey sour and see lots of people I know and dance badly to sixties music while another bar tries to drown it all out with madonna or similar?&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50536883033</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50536883033</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 10:14:00 +1000</pubDate><category>BBL</category><category>all of my friends are in europe anyway</category><category>or here</category><category>they are mostly here.</category><category>211 is my old bus stop</category></item><item><title>I am v pleased with my geographical location because IF I WANT TO I can stay in bed until one hour...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;I am v pleased with my geographical location because IF I WANT TO I can stay in bed until one hour before I start work and still have time to shower, eat dry cereal with my hands from the box and buy coffee before catching the bumble bee tram to my workplace.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50486785602</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50486785602</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 19:29:55 +1000</pubDate></item><item><title>All day every day Josh and I are doing the Lord’s work.</title><description>&lt;iframe src="//www.tumblr.com/video/withabang/50485587164/400" id="tumblr_video_iframe_50485587164" class="tumblr_video_iframe" width="400" height="706" style="display:block;background-color:transparent;overflow:hidden;" allowTransparency="true" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;All day every day &lt;a href="http://jshdivision.tumblr.com"&gt;Josh&lt;/a&gt; and I are doing the Lord’s work.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50485587164</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50485587164</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 18:40:04 +1000</pubDate></item><item><title>Should I buy this coat, the tan one, not the red one. Help me.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/fd22e4702addcffb76f782f9ae8060ff/tumblr_mmtcz5AFsV1qzjrj9o1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Should I buy this coat, the tan one, not the red one. Help me.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50457871513</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50457871513</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 10:21:00 +1000</pubDate><category>dear creatures</category></item><item><title>how to boys</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://foie.tumblr.com/post/50374652588/how-to-boys"&gt;foie&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;greet&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;chat&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;chat&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;chat&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;joke&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;joke&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;joke&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;joke&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;compliment appearance&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;compliment personality&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;flirt&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;flirt&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;flirt&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;hug&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;hug&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;hug&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;hug&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;hug&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;hug&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;amorous hug&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;amorous hug&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;first kiss&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;kiss&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;kiss&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;kiss&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;make out&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;make out&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;make out&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;make out&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;woo-hoo&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;woo-hoo&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;woo-hoo&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;propose&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50418452566</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50418452566</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 23:29:45 +1000</pubDate></item><item><title>A matter for women and their doctors? If only - The Drum Opinion (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.abc.net.au/unleashed/4682464.html"&gt;A matter for women and their doctors? If only - The Drum Opinion (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://childrenbychoice.tumblr.com/post/50297687884/a-matter-for-women-and-their-doctors-if-only-the"&gt;childrenbychoice&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://evaturekjewkes.tumblr.com/post/50295715641/a-matter-for-women-and-their-doctors-if-only-the"&gt;evaturekjewkes&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;blockquote class="link_og_blockquote"&gt;
&lt;div&gt;The exorbitant cost and inaccessibility of abortion means its a matter for a woman and her doctor… and her boss, school, phone company, landlord, bank and family.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Some important information for women regarding abortion in Queensland.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This piece by Kate at Children by Choice.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is important.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50323843999</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50323843999</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 15:19:34 +1000</pubDate></item><item><title> Friendship isn’t a circle of tranquility to be defended from the intrusion of “issues” or “drama.” Friendship isn’t a fragmented landscape with a clean inside and a dirty outside.</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.thestate.ae/critical-friendship-studies/"&gt; Friendship isn’t a circle of tranquility to be defended from the intrusion of “issues” or “drama.” Friendship isn’t a fragmented landscape with a clean inside and a dirty outside.&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50256720672</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50256720672</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 23:50:01 +1000</pubDate><category>critical friendship studies</category><category>friendship</category></item><item><title>We had our housewarming snack party tonight and we snacked for...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a0ffecf8473093554cdb8cc94ca1af6c/tumblr_mmmzymWOj91qzjrj9o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;We had our housewarming snack party tonight and we snacked for eight hours and now we have a cupboard full of snacks and two whole cakes leftover.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50165055700</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/50165055700</guid><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2013 23:54:22 +1000</pubDate></item><item><title>"mourning involves mourning the imaginary object that we were for the Other. And isn’t hatred one of..."</title><description>“mourning involves mourning the imaginary object that we were for the Other. And isn’t hatred one of the consequences of not being able to say ‘I was their lack’?”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Mourning, Melancholia &amp; Depression, p162 (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://jujutsu-with-zizek.tumblr.com/"&gt;jujutsu-with-zizek&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/49986111501</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/49986111501</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 13:03:50 +1000</pubDate><category>:')</category></item><item><title>"The result is a false dichotomy: either you are “poor” and poised on the edge of bankruptcy, or you..."</title><description>“The result is a false dichotomy: either you are “poor” and poised on the edge of bankruptcy, or you are “comfortable” and you never have to think about money at all. But being middle-class doesn’t mean never needing to make a choice about what you spend your money on. It means having the wiggle room to choose in the first place.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;I’m talking “privileged poverty” at &lt;a href="http://www.dailylife.com.au/news-and-views/dl-opinion/is-there-such-a-thing-as-the-privileged-poor-20130508-2j731.html"&gt;Daily Life&lt;/a&gt; today.  (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rachelhills.tumblr.com/"&gt;rachelhills&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Rachel Hills is in my top-something favourite Rachels.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;I am not poor. I don’t feel poor. I probably complain about being “poor” but let’s get real. I am very comfortable with my unnecessarily expensive sneakers, comfortable bed and lack of overseas trips. Since I’ve been an adult with a job I have always been able to pay rent, I have always been able to choose what I spent my money on. Even during my unemployment slog I was broke, but I was never poor. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But, just for a minute let’s talk about my six person family living on less than I make now for most of my life and POINT AND LAUGH at me living this life and complaining about it all the time.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/49967752504</link><guid>http://withabang.tumblr.com/post/49967752504</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 09:19:10 +1000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
